Kristi Noem’s cross-dressing husband Bryon told a dominatrix he loved it when she was mean about his family — while telling her he thought he’d make a “great woman.”
Sex worker Shy Sotomayor made tens of thousands of dollars in her salacious phone conversations with Noem, 56, which included at least one of her calling his family “gross,” according to the humiliating messages obtained by the Daily Mail.
“What’s gross?” asked Bryon Noem, who used the handle Chrystalballz666 in some of the exchanges.
“Love that. Do you really think they’re gross?” Noem asked the comically enhanced dominatrix.
“Lol yes. Don’t you,” she replied of Kristin Noem and, seemingly, their three kids.
Noem asks why she thinks they’re gross and she responded: “’Besides the fact of who your wife is, no one is prettier than me. No one is as powerful.”
In the same November, 2025 exchange, he then told Sotomayor that he’d like to become a woman.
“I think you’d make a great woman,” she texted him, encouragingly.
“I would have to agree with you. Hair removal. Huge fake tits. Ass implants. Hormones,” he replied proudly, adding prediction that they will meet up sometime in 2026.
In other conversations, Noem revealed he wanted to be Sotomayer’s “trans bimbo slut” who goes by the name “Crystal” and fantasized about leaving his family.
Despite loving being told his family was “gross,” Bryone Noem appeared defensive about his wife in other exchanges.
“I do like my wife,” he insisted at one point, to which Sotomomayor replied cruelly, “She’s not very likeable.”
Bryon Noem’s secret life as a cross-dressing member of the “bimbofication” fetish community was exposed last week — along with embarrassing photos of him posing seductively with absurdly large prosthetic breasts.
Kristi Noem, who was fired from her role as DHS Secretary last month, said via a spokesperson that she was “devastated” and the family was “blindsided” by the revelation.
Sotomayor said she and Noem first connected in 2016, but he abruptly and inexplicably stopped contacting her in 2020. Five years later, they reconnected.
Eventually, Sotomayor said Noem became so demanding of her time that she ran his phone number and post box address through an online search and learned his true identity.
